Brother, Come Dance With Me!

10 Examples of Men Dancing Together Which Are Joyful, Powerful and May Be Revolutionary

David Jurasek
10 min readMar 11, 2019
Pic courtesy of Liat Aharoni

I’ve been noticing in these cold and dark months especially how little physical contact I am having with other men.

Sure, I get to the dojo and train with my male buds (my “brothers”) here and there, and it’s satisfying to wrestle and play fight. But there is something about dancing — moving with more spontaneity, ecstatic joy and celebration — that I miss.

As if on cue, I got these pics in the mail.

Pic courtesy of Liat Aharoni

That’s me on the left with the scruffy beard and brown blazer, embracing the joy of dancing with two men, one a dear friend and the other a stranger — until we danced together.

They are from a wedding I attended with my wife and daughter, 6 months ago.

I look at these pictures and think about the many times dancing with other men has been deeply healing and life changing for me (more on those experiences in point #9) and I wonder why have I not done it more often, lately.

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David Jurasek

Imperfect man wrestling with the paradox of being powerful and loving. Find me and our dojo at: www.powerfulandloving.com